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  • Writer's pictureTanya Louise

Home: Does Your Living Space Make You Unhappy

Our home can affect our mood, but when it comes to creating a happy living space, it can be hard to get it to a place that makes you feel both happy and comfortable when you’re there.

A lot of us want that show home look, but if you're not careful you can end up with a property that you live in but it doesn't feel like a home, and that’s a big problem for many homeowners. It’s important that your living space feels like home for you, as that’s what allows us to feel comfortable. We spend a lot of our time at home, especially during this pandemic, so why not make sure it’s our happy place?

Clean it up

The first reason you might be feeling uncomfortable in your own home is mess. Mess is generally discomforting to be around, and it leaves a nagging feeling in the back of our heads - Untidy room, untidy mind, so it’s best not to leave any of it around! Tidying up any mess and dealing with your cleaning responsibilities can be rewarding, and once it’s done you’ll find that your home is a much calmer happier place. That’s not to say it’s the solution to all of your issues, but it’s definitely a start on making changes!

Really clean it up

Dusting the place and doing the dishes is one thing, but some mess can only be dealt with by professionals. Having damp spots on the walls, cracks in places they shouldn’t be, or damages caused by natural causes, dealing with it might be outside of your capabilities! Hiring professionals like those at can ensure that your home gets the proper cleaning it needs. Things like your air ducts, gutters, or high-up windows should be left to those with the proper equipment to do so!

A fresh coat of paint

Sometimes the problem you find within your home is that you’re bored of looking at the same four walls. Having to look at the same furniture, colours, or other decorations is fine for some time, but the enjoyment can start to feel stale. Giving your home a new color to keep things feeling fresh is a great way to enjoy your home again! Try something new, don’t be afraid to leave your comfort zone, and you’ll be feeling the rewards in no time. Of course, it’s not free to change, but if it brings you happiness; then it’s worth the money!

Fill it with joy

It can be hard to feel at home in a place that doesn’t really do enough to remind you of home. Filling your house or living space up with decorations and items that are personal to you can do a lot for the happiness your home brings. Plants, pictures, posters, anything that makes the space feel more personal and cozy can make the world of difference. It’s always nice to see a friendly face, and in this case, surrounding yourself with familiar items can bring you a lot of comforts!

Having plants in your home is also said to be beneficial to your health if you choose well as certain ones are said to help purify the air, plants are also said to help to reduce stress, too. Not only do they give you responsibility, but also bring a lot of colours. Having a bit of nature in the home can also be quite grounding.

Bring in new smells

Generally, if you don't scent your home with your fragrance of choice, it’s going to start to smell of you after a while. It’s not a bad thing to have your home smelling like you, but it doesn’t do a lot for your mood. Having a smell that you enjoy can be a frequent reminder that you’re in your comfortable place. There are many ways you can go about it too! Scented candles are a nice way to bring a relaxed atmosphere, or incense can smell amazing or air freshener sprays can be quick and easy. I'm not a fan of potpourri it can smell nice for a bit but I feel it then sits stagnant, especially if you think of it in Feng Shui terms and bad energy ! Whatever you pick, freshening up the place with some nice new fragrances is a nice touch in any home!

Don’t sit in darkness

I love a candle lit atmosphere, it can be very cosy, however, a poorly lit room can put you in a low mood if it's not your thing and is something you might want to avoid. Making sure to light up your rooms properly, both day and night, can help you feel a lot more comfortable at home. In fact in Hygge, a factor is bringing in more natural light in the day by making sure curtains and blinds are open, or you could have a skylight or velux window, something I want if I eventually extend my home. Of course a less expensive hack is to invest in some extra lamps to help the place feel warmer and brighter.

You should feel happy and comfortable when you’re at home, it’s where you spend most of your time and your most important hours! Living somewhere that brings you down is going to affect your mood every day!

Hope these tips help. Let me know if you have any more?

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